Temptations

We are all tempted at times, even Jesus faced times of temptation – but how can we stop ourselves from acting upon this?

Ultimately temptations can lead to consequences. Temptation is where we really want something but deep down we know we shouldn’t have it. We are faced with that confliction – do I or don’t I? Even at the beginning, temptation crept in. The downfall of man at the result of giving in to temptations.

Eve gave in to temptation and ate the fruit. She knew she shouldn’t but she gave in. The serpent, who we believe is the devil, persuaded her to do so. Even when we are faced with certain situations that we know we should avoid, a nagging voice creeps in convincing us it’ll all be okay, despite us knowing differently.

However, giving in to temptation happens – we are only human and its within our nature to be sinful. But because of God’s relentless love and everlasting grace, when we admit our mistakes, He will forgive us and help us to remain faithful to Him.

“The temptations in your life are no different from what others experience. And God is faithful. He will not allow the temptation to be more than you can stand. When you are tempted, He will show you a way out so that you can endure.”

1 Corinthians 10:13 

It is important to remember that although God forgives us time and time again, we should not push the line. We should not abuse this, and treat God’s forgiveness like a ‘free pass’. When we are tempted and act upon it, we should be willining to develop more self-control to prevent repeating these moments. God doesn’t turn a blind eye to our sins but He never abandons us either. Hi is utterly committed to fulfilling the purpose He has for each of us!

In Samuel 11, we learn about David’s experiences with temptations. Up until this point David was a successful King, defeating many nations and armies, whilst staying fully focused on God. However, as soon as a woman appears on the scene, things are a different story; enter Bathsheba. We all come across temptations in our lives and sometimes like David we cannot turn away or say no. We may not commit adultery or plan a murder, but in God’s eyes all sin is sin – all actions are sinful whether physical or in thoughts – it’s all the same to God. God was ‘displeased’ with what David had done but did not confront him. Instead after a year, sent Nathan (a prophet and friend of David) to speak with him. Through Nathan, David came to a realisation of what he had done and repented to God.

So, we know that temptation is something we should avoid, but if we do slip up, God will still forgive us and continue to work with us to fix things. Finally, here is some advice from the Bible on how to tackle temptations:

Prayer: Ask God for strength and self-control.

“Keep watch and pray, so that you will not give in to temptation. For the spirit is willing but the body is weak!”

Matthew 26:41

Remember Jesus understands: He too experienced temptations.

“Since He himself has gone through suffering and testing, He is able to help us when we are being tested.”

Hebrews 2:18

Work on your Fruits: Ask God to help you build up the fruits of your spirit, especially self-control.

“But the Holy Spirit produces this kind of fruit in our lives: love, joy, peace, patience, kindness, goodness, faithfulness, gentleness and self control. There is no law against these things!”

Galatians 5: 22-23

Avoidance: Try and keep away from situations where temptations are bound to thrive, and instead spend time with fellow Christians who will encourage you to make moral choices. Focus on the word of God and follow the example of Christ.

“Run from anything that stimulates youthful lusts. Instead, pursue righteous living, faithfulness, love and peace. Enjoy the companionship of those who call on the Lord with pure hearts.”

2 Timothy 2:22

“Temptations are inevitable”– Matthew 18:7. We will all slip up and make mistakes because we are not perfect. Nevertheless, we must aim to maintain self-control and avoid situations that encourage temptations, as although God forgives our wrong doings, we should want to better ourselves and try to be more faithful.

God Bless 🙂